Tony Robbins

FORGIVENESS IS THE GIFT YOU GIVE YOURSELF, NOT A GIFT YOU GIVE SOMEONE ELSE

So many people today yearn for happiness, joy, and love — seemingly, to no avail.

We live in a world with so many choices, and resources, and freedoms, and so much technology, yet so many of us seem to live lives that are filled with MORE stress and LESS enjoyment than ever in history. Why is this? What are we missing?

There are, of course, many ways to try to answer this question, but having worked with more than 50 million people in 100 countries around the world, I can tell you people have patterns of perception. That is, in all the ways of looking at and labeling our experiences of other people, the events that occur in our lives — many cause people to feel frustrated and constricted with life.

Still, I have met a few amazing people over the years who consistently experience a life filled with abundance and purpose. They are those who lead meaningful lives, and they are truly, genuinely happy (and it’s rarely, if ever, because their lives are any easier than yours or mine).

The remarkable thing is, that no matter how blessed a life may be with health, wealth, family, close friends, opportunities to learn and grow, and a chance to give backthe number one pattern that denigrates, and, in some cases, completely destroys people’s lives, is expectations.  

That’s it; that’s the catch. Expectations.